What is seduction?
In simple terms, seduction can be defined as an act to persuade or trick someone into doing something by making it very attractive.
Are people born seductive?
Some people are naturally super seductive and can turn someone on with one move but not every one is born with this charm. The good news is however that one can learn. A few people need a little extra help when it comes to seduction but with a little dedication, nothing is impossible.
How can a woman be seductive?
Smiling.
There is absolutely no one that doesn’t look stunning when they smile. Spare me the “I have a terrible smile" sister. Although your face doesn’t exist to please anyone else, smiling is always the first seduction technique that is highly recommended. It helps to show that you’re fun, have a sense or humor and are in a good mood. Do away with the serious look and smile a little for this man standing before you!
Create mystery
Avoid being an open book. According to a study conducted by researchers from Harvard University, people are more attracted to individuals who do not reveal information about themselves all at once. To apply this technique, avoid divulging too much about yourself too soon, and instead gradually share interesting stories about your life and experiences. This creates a sense of mystery and intrigue that draws people in and keeps them engaged. This will pique a man's curiosity and create an emotional connection.
Confidence.
Who doesn’t love a confident woman? This is not even just for the ladies. In numerous studies, self-confidence has been shown to be a highly attractive trait in both men and women. To boost your self-confidence, consider working on your body language and posture, maintaining eye contact, and practicing active listening. Individuals who exude confidence are often perceived as more charismatic, capable, and trustworthy. These actions can significantly enhance the way you present yourself to others and make you appear more appealing.
The mirroring technique.
According to research, mirroring or subtly mimicking someone’s body language, speech patterns, and facial expressions can lead to increased rapport and a sense of familiarity. By mirroring his movements and adopting his speaking rhythm, you create a sense of understanding and familiarity that may increase his attraction towards you. This unconscious behavior is known as the “chameleon effect,” and it can be utilised in the art of seduction.
The eye contact technique.
It is bot okay for you to look away all the time. I know you are trying to act cute and shy but that does not work in the game of seduction. Make sure to make eye contact for a few seconds. Remember however that you should not make eye contact for way too long as that would make you seem like a psychotic murderer.
Use your body language.
Body language is a powerful tool that you can use to your advantage, but some people just don’t think about it a lot. Body language can indicate comfort or interest in someone. For example, if you’re facing someone, you’re invested in what they have to say but when you look away from them, it’s a sign that you have no interest in listening to them and you would rather they don’t talk much.
The triangle method technique.
This is the killer move y'all. The triangle method is a seduction technique where a woman will look into a man's eyes then slowly lower her gaze to his mouth in a triangular motion. So it goes from looking into his left eye, right eye then to his lips and then back to his left eye where the staring begun.
I would be lying if I told you the trick behind this technique but it works every time and men find it very beautiful and seductive.
In all honesty therefore, you do not need to do anything special to seduce a man. It all starts with your body language and determination.
