Triggering sex with your partner doesn't have to be difficult or embarrassing.we share tips on how to play a more assertive role in the bedroom with these new tactics and techniques. From research the result is More frequent and enjoyable s£x.
1. DESIGN CLUES FOR YOUR PARTNER
Partners often display subtle clues when they are ready for sex. unfortunately these hints can slip by unnoticed. If he or she is not catching on that you are in the mood, a chat about sexual clues --both yours and his -- is a must. It’s easier to initiate sex if your partner is already giving you clues. Then you will know that your signal is going to be received well.
Clues can be simple. If you are craving intimacy forgo the evening beer with friends go home and put on the nice lingerie or have relaxing music playing instead of the the TV. Letting your partner know what turns you on makes things easier
2. BE DIRECT
Dont be shy. Ask using direct, simple language. "Do you want to make out, do you want to make love, do you want to get it on --whatever phrase you're comfortable using,"
3. Put it in writing
If you feel embarrassed or silly talking about your desires love jungle jotting down your thoughts in a flirty text even on WhatsApp. Or even a snap. You can even leave a suggestive message on a sticky note at home, or on a piece of paper in a coat pocket.
4. DEVELOP CODE WORDS
If you have children around or even friends it can be tough to get the message across that you are in need of s€x. To avoid an adult conversation being heard by little ears, adopt the use of code words or phrases. "Your husband can say something like 'Tusimbule,’as a way of asking what you would feel like later [in terms of s€x]," . If you're feeling the intimacy vibe, say yes. If you're not in the mood you can secretly let him down by saying no or changing the topic and no one won't be any wiser.
5. TAKE ACTION
For some couples, non verbal actions and visual clues speak louder than words. "Take your partner's hand and lead him into the bedroom, or be naked under a robe, long dress-shirt or a wrap dress and flash him. Leave the room and see if he follows.
6. PLAN IT
If work and the demands of daily life leave no opportunities for an impromptu session, love jungle recommends scheduling intimacy into your calendars. With today's easy-to-use syncing software, you can book an ongoing "appointment" in both of your phone calendars simultaneously. If sex is a priority show your partner that it is continuously. It sends a really powerful message to your partner that you're important to me, that sex and intimacy are important to me, so let's make it happen.
7. AIM FOR MORNINGS
The morning can actually make initiation easier, when testosterone (the s£x-drive hormone) is higher. Both men and women have the most testosterone in the morning, so if you happen to have a lazy Saturday or Sunday, or a weekday morning when you can make the time, it's a nice time to do it. Not only will you feel more amorous at sunrise, but your partner will, too, making it more likely that your initiative will be accepted.
8. REMEMBER PAST OCASSIONS
A relaxed chat recalling past sexual episodes that you have shared together is another way to ignite passion in your partner. Reminiscing about past sexual experiences like Remember that time shortly after we got together and we did this ......can get people in the mood. Talking about a mutually enjoyable sexual moment can help get the brain in gear, and allow the body to follow. The brain is largest s£x organ and you have to put forward the energy to stimulate it.
