LOVEJUNGLE: Things That Frustrate New Relationships
There so many desperate to be in realtionships. From those who just feel the urge to be with someone to call Bae to those who ranted on social media for not being loved and finally they land into one relationship. There so many reasons why some new relationships fail to take off. One shouldn't force things that aren't meant to be. For that good reason the love jungle shares signs and things that frustrate new relationships.
1. Very high expectations
school of thought shares that the leading cause of heart breaks is expectations. Many have fairy tale romance ideas hey could have watched on television or social media. this makes people draw a picture of this perfect person in thier heads. when the meet someone they either put them on too much pressure indirectly.
2. Constantly complianing
Everyone wants peace of mind and to be with someone who will give them peace, if you are constantly finding fault, there is no way the relationship will work.
3. Relationship with one's self
relationships start with work I side you as a person before spreading it. if one can't love themsleves it's hard to be ready to accept others. it later breeds selfishness. Always focusing on yourself and what you want and what is convenient for you is a fast way to see the relationship crash and burn. Make sacrifices to see your partner happy.
If you like them, show them as much as they show you. Your partner will feel unloved if they are always overextending themselves for you and you cannot reciprocate. If that keeps happening, they will feel used and want to end the relationship.
4.Baggage from past relationships
Let the past be. many people jump into new relationships without healing fully especially if it was ended in a messy way. Stop saying 'my ex and I are still friends, get a clean break from them and focus on your new relationship. some times the old realtionships affect people's ability to trust. so if they they can't trust it's hard to commit
No one wants to be with a firebrand, every small disagreement, you are screaming and acting out. As I said earlier everyone wants peace and that’s not peaceful.
6. Poor communication
this is core for any relationship to succeed. people should get to know each other and embrace diversity. Speaking and listening are skills you have to master. Of course, you can hear them but do you understand what they are saying? Communicating effectively and acting on what you heard is important. If not, the fights will be recurrent just because people don't sync.
7. Not being practical physically
with the emergency of technology and all that comes with it. it's common to find relationships that kicked off online. people probably knew themselves in the past or just met on Facebook. well sometimes these kind of meetups turn up into wonderful relationships but if you haven't physically met in the short time of atleast 3 months. its fair to say move on.
Generally relationships call for patience. Hold on. everyone has thier own timeframe to love effectively so it's just about being calm.
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