Have you ever wondered why there is this particular person that seems to know or understand you even more than you understand yourself? It is most definitely not telepathy, it is not magic and it is not prophesy. It is just one simple thing called psychology. Simply defined, Psychology is the study of human behavior and is central to our thoughts, actions, and interactions.
It could be that this particular person is able to mirror your thoughts, they seem to know what you are thinking and exactly what you need at a particular time. Some people are too good at psychology to an extent that they seem to understand you better than you have ever understood yourself.
Well, there are also a few psychology tricks that you never knew about but you definitely need to know about because they could make your life easier than before. These few tricks are not harmful if you are worried about. They are just meant to help you get through life because if you understand the people around you, it will definitely be easier to live or work with them.
If someone has used these tricks on you, a few things are going to start coming together and falling into place. You just landed on a smart person and it is high time that you start emulating everything that you have been witnessing.
Below are a few psychology tricks that you never knew about;
Psychology tricks that you never knew about.
The minute silence trick.
This usually works when your in doubt. Have you heard of a piece of news or a story from someone that you consider rather dishonest or maybe you simply do not believe a word that they are saying? This is the right time to clear your doubts.
When you believe that someone is lying to you, stare right at them and be silent. Just be silent for almost a minute. This person will feel uncomfortable with the silence if they are indeed lying. If they are being honest about what they are saying, they will stare right back and be comfortable in the silence but if they are not, they will let off more information slip even when they did not intend to because of the urge to break the uncomfortable silence.
The stalking detector.
There are times when you start to feel uncomfortable and you feel like someone has their eyes on you. You feel that nagging feeling at the back of your mind, telling you that someone has their eyes on you. There is a way to detect that someone is busy eyeing you.
Allow me to disclose the stalker detector- yawning. If you are in a room and you feel someone’s eyes on you, just yawn. Yawning is too contagious and it is something that you can not escape. The moment you yawn, the person that had their eyes on you will feel the irresistible urge to yawn. There, you got your culprit.
The strong nod.
The nod is a manipulative way of getting someone to agree with whatever you are saying, even when they were not going to agree with it in the first place. If you are telling someone an idea or a strategy that you want them to agree upon without asking too many questions, just nod in agreement with your own idea as you say it out to them.
When you give a strong nod, it will be too hard for the other party to refuse whatever you are trying to sell to them simply because when you nod, it seems like an affirmation or like a yes to whatever you are telling them so they will end up agreeing with you on it as well.
The path creator.
This is something that you had never imagined but it works like magic! When you are in a crowded area and you feel like no one is making way for you to pass through, you need to create your own path right through the chaos. Do not look at people as a sign that they should give you way as you try to brush past them. They will get the impression that since you are looking right at them, you will move and create way for them.
Instead, look straight ahead to where you are headed. Let your sight not falter from your destination. If you keep your eyes up ahead, people will automatically create a path for you simply because they will want to dodge you as they think you are not seeing them in your way.
Aiming Higher.
Try this psychology trick if there is something that you want someone to do for you or to give you but your unsure of whether they will budge or give in to you. If you want something from someone, ask for something more difficult than what you actually want. When this person says no, you can then ask for what you wanted in the first place.
You will definitely get it from this person because they will feel sorry to say no twice in a row to you and also, this person will consider it less than what you had asked for before, hence easier for them to fulfill for you.
Adrenaline arousal.
If you are terrible at first dates, this one is for you. Do not take your date to a ditch out restaurant or any thing that requires the two of you to sit down in a calm and relaxed environment. Instead, take them to a place that requires both of you to participate in activities that generate the adrenaline rush. It could be games or anything that involves the adrenaline rush.
The adrenaline arousal will make your date believe that they had a lot of fun with you simply because you took them to activities that aroused their feel good hormones. Quite a trick, right?
The eye color trick.
We all know that looking someone straight into the eye makes you look confident right? But what happens when you can not get yourself to look someone in the eye but yet you are supposed to because you want to earn the confidence points?
Focus on the person’s eye color. When you try to analyze the eye color of a person, it will take your mind off the fact that you are looking someone straight in the eye and it will help you maintain eye contact for not less than a minute, making you look confident.
The calm look.
When someone is arguing with you or in worst cases shouting at you, the only thing you have to do is give off the calm look. They will feel crazy for even shouting at you and in the end, they will be left speechless and wont shout no more.
The warm hands.
Before shaking someone’s hands, make sure that your hands are warm. Why? Warm hands are usually associated with a warm personality. Even when you are the coldest person that has ever roamed the earth, when someone shakes your hands and they are warm, they will perceive you as warm and friendly.
Frequently Asked Questions.
What is the hardest thing in psychology?
Feeling Helpless. Even the most educated and experienced psychologist can't fix a client who isn't ready or willing to work toward changing the thoughts, behaviors and circumstances that contribute to life problems or mental health issues – and that can be extremely frustrating.
How can I attract someone naturally?
Non-verbal Communication. More than half of our communication is non-verbal, including our body language, facial expressions, and gestures. This makes non-verbal cues vital in attracting people. A friendly smile, eye contact, and open body language can make others feel comfortable and welcome.
What is meant by dark psychology?
Dark psychology is the science and art of manipulation and mind control. On its own, psychology is the study of how humans behave, the mind and the thoughts, and how we interact with each other. Dark psychology is when people use maneuvers, motivations, manipulations, persuasion, and compulsion to achieve their goals.
How to play with peoples psychology?
Study their mannerisms and words to figure out their technique. Practice reading people. Be sure to study the person you are trying to play a mind game with, so that you know how that person thinks. This will allow you to take the best approach for getting this person to take part in your game.
What increases attraction?
They include physical attractiveness, proximity, similarity, and reciprocity: Physical attractiveness: Research shows that romantic attraction is primarily determined by physical attractiveness. In the early stages of dating, people are more attracted to partners whom they consider to be physically attractive.
